Alternatives we have...or don't have

In some cases (maybe all of them), we chose to put our problems in the hands of someone else. I think this is choosing the easy way, a way to escape. Hear me out. Listen to you. Look around; so much people are looking for someone to guide them, who will show them, in my opinion: n-o-t-h-i-n-g. Well, nothing we don't already know. And what a magic- it works. Why? Because you want to make that person who is giving you that magic advise happy. This situation got some goods and bads. The good thing is that a whole new profession is born; telling, for a whole a bunch of money, what all of us already know and making us pay for it. The bad thing is that people stopped thinking. This is bad folks. yabadi yabadha! Ok. I'm not saying it doesn't work. It is, but in my eyes it can be done by a lot less, and when the solution comes from within- it's a lot more powerful. This brings us to a stage where we need some stranger or a top selling new book to teach us how to "succeed" in the simplest everyday situations. This makes us and I confused. Well...the way I look on it is that we don't need anybody to mess up with our life. Think about it; it's a serious thing we are talking about. All we need is to set the cables free. We don't need them. There are a lot of ways that by using them we can make so much of a difference. Example: Family. Calmness- one of the milestones. One of the keys for making it better. Not such sophisticated ha? Well it's not. The understanding of its importance- is. What the hell am I talking about?? How in all of mothers can I stay calm when… (Fill it in your mind- I'm sure you will find something :)). That's the thing. The understanding that so much is affected by you and that your love ones are adopting your behavior consistently while you like it or not. As parents, your family's is your own mirror. Your children are little you. Again, it's all about paying attention and understanding that we are not alone. We, if we want it or not, have an immense affect on others. When parents understand it, when shop workers understand it, when doctors understand it, when you and I understand it- all will benefit.