They need less than you think

Think about how you would react. Put yourself on that smelly other man's shoes. Would you be able to stand with this behavior? I think not. And what if that man had a rough day? I assume it wouldn't be bothering you too much. Well...it should and it should not. Let's dig in some more; let's focus on relations between parents and their young children. It's something I can write about a lot. What is in your mind a "working" family? a one that have money, or maybe a one were parents have great relations wi

th their kids, parents that spent a lot of time with them. Well…Leaving names a side (my sister's own familyJ), I see, what looks from a stranger's look: a working family. For sure. Well...it's not. Yes, financially- it's great. But, and I know you can think about just one family that fits the description, within something is ju

st not right. Parents don't have patient (not just to each other...But, let's say that their children need to catch them in a good time to...J). Few months ago I read an article saying that today parent pay like 8 minutes a day with their children, whereas 20 years ago it was two hours or so. And don't tell me it got to do with all the "rat race" we are in, those parents. That's bull. Yes, there is a lot of pressure on the modern parents, but the ones who should be suffering from it are not the kids. We just feel more comfortable throwing this situation on the reality. Think it out...would you as a child like it if your parents would spent like 8 minutes a day with you. Hell no. parents 

are just not getting it. Let me say it like that; your children need much (much) less than you think they need. They need you. Yes. Not some bob the builder bulldozer or a Dora the explorer doll. You know what I think- I think parents need those toys more than their children. These toys making you feel good with yourself that you don't have the time or will to be more time with your children. Don't for a bit think that some toy can substitute this precious time (for you also). They just need you being there for them. Asking how the kinder garden day was, who their friends are. A hug. A big one, a bear like one. A smile. Trust me. Remember and think how did (I hope not nod) you missed it when you were their age.
Listen, to me. Listen to your sense. They don't need more. They need less. They need you. Relations.